Posted by allisonross on December 8, 2005, at 5:23:10
In reply to Called my T, feel stupid now, posted by Voce on December 8, 2005, at 0:57:50
Hi, Voce, sweetie: It is never dumb to call someone. You may feel that way, but it is only normal to want to connect.
What if you tell her exactly what you said in your post, about not wanting to take advantage, etc., etc....just be real. I always think authentic is the only way to be. Scary, at times, but necessary. That way, there is no misunderstanding.
And I TOTALLY relate to your being in love with your former t.
Feelings are facts...they are not right or wrong.....they just....are.
Hugs, Ally
P.S. T's know all about the feelings of neediness, connections, all of the human emotions, etc.....we shouldn't feel dumb or stupid about our needs.....they are normal; they are human...WE are all human. Give yourself a break, sweetie, and maybe we can share a lunch with a drink?! LOL
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