Posted by daisym on December 3, 2005, at 23:50:34
In reply to therapist outside of office setting, posted by happyflower on December 3, 2005, at 21:04:46
Happy --
You really won't like my reply.
I think it is and has changed things. But I think you are torturing yourself looking for confirmation that he has feelings for you. You say you can feel it and I trust that you can. But I think you HAVE TO check this out with him. He might not answer you, he might not even realize the signals he is sending out. But conscious or unconscious, you are being led on and there are enough little things that keep you enticed, keep you looking for other things that you can take a proof about what you think he feels.
It seems to me that this needs to get processed. It might be really uncomfortable but I think it will be worth it. Knowing but not knowing, wondering but not really wanting to know, geez, it really must take up so much brain space.
I think that by bringing it up you will benefit you, him and your therapy. He needs to be made aware of how you feel and how his behavior appears. It seems super important. I hope you can.
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