Posted by NikkiT2 on November 29, 2005, at 11:30:23
In reply to 2 days 12 hours and counting, posted by happyflower on November 28, 2005, at 21:11:51
For a few days..
If your T is your true soul mate, and the love is real.. the surely you will do anything to be with him?
If so.. then you need to find a new T, and start living out the two years before you could consider being together without your T losing their license.
I think, truthfully, a new T is needed, desperately.
One of the therapists I work with had *terrible* problems and nearly lost their job because a client was in love with them, and could *honestly* see how much the therapist was in love with them. The problem was, the therapist *wasn't* in love with them.. yes, they liked them, as many therapists like and respect their clients.. but it caused such pain and heartache for the therapist, his wife, his managers and his colleagues.
I don't know your T, so I have no idea of his feelings for you. But, if they are even suspected, you HAVE to stop seeing him. The only way you could be together would be to stop seeing him.
Maybe now is the time to face him over this. Say "I am in love with you. If you are in love with me, tell me, and we can start working on finding me a new T so that one day we can be together".
I am a believer in soul mates. I've had a few - only one was romantic - and he's my husband. being soul mates doesn't make the marriage any easier (those on PB2000 can back THAT up!)..
But, please.. this needs sorting. You need to know, for your own and your families sake, whether the feelings are reciprocated..
Nikki
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