Posted by happyflower on November 13, 2005, at 9:10:50
In reply to Re: Do your T's eyes smile at you? » happyflower, posted by orchid on November 13, 2005, at 0:22:32
Orchid,
My real work in therapy is done with already. I have issues in my marriage, but i have done everything I can do right now, it is up to my DH. If nothing happens, then it will be up to be to issue ultimatiums to him. We have already made a plan of action in therapy for this if it comes to this.
He says I am doing very well and that is why my sessions are only once a month. He is there more for support than actual therapy.
I do have a outside relationship with him already, I see and talk to him at the gym.
I don't see why me appreciating things in him makes it wrong. I know what I want in a man, but it doesn't mean I can't like how he makes me feel or like who he is.
I know some of you have been burned from your T's and I can understand your negative or jeolous thoughts of maybe I do have a good thing with my T. This is why I thought I shouldn't post about this.
I am not going into this blind, I see everything everyone is saying, but I know my heart and I know he has feelings for me. Yes, we need to talk about this, and we will when the time is right. I will be okay, in fact my T said I was okay before therapy. He said I was doing a lot better than most even before therapy. So I can handle this. I am sorry if me posting about what I like about my T is bothering some of you. Maybe I shouldn't post at all anymore.
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