Posted by Emily Elizabeth on October 11, 2005, at 23:17:53
In reply to Need advice about friendship with former therapist, posted by Blossom on October 11, 2005, at 21:51:58
Okay, this is probably not what you are hoping to hear, but as I read your post I started to worry for you. To me, it seems like you are playing with fire. My concern is that your ex-T will suddenly decide that he is not comfortable about the nature of your relationship (whatever that is) and cut off all contact with you. I can't imagine how hurtful that would be.
Don't get tied up in debating the ethics of this situation. In a way, it is beside the point. What is important is the practical reality of the situation. You are in a vulnerable position where you can get really hurt.
Forgive me if this sounds harsh, but someone said that there are 1000's of T's out there. I would add that there are also 1000's of friends.
Please take care of yourself.
Best,
EE
poster:Emily Elizabeth
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