Posted by terrics on September 5, 2005, at 11:19:24
In reply to Transference won, posted by FlyingKangaroo on September 4, 2005, at 0:50:58
> I cant take it anymore. I told T that I'm not coming back. I Will never put myself in this situation again therefore, dont want another T.
> 2 months of therapy and i am in worse state than when i started. I lost sight of the real issues that brought me into therapy and was seeing my T just because of the attraction. The fanatasies are no longer harmless and no longer fun.
> He refused to answer my question (are you married?) because he said it wasnt beneficial for me to know.
> Well f*ck him and f*ck therapy I'm done.
> Just wish i knew about this transference crap before i started therapy.
I would wait it out. Did you explain to him how much it is hurting you and your therapeutic relationship with him? If he cannot work on it with you, you have a tough call to make. Wish you luck and a good decision. terrics
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