Posted by daisym on September 4, 2005, at 20:55:34
In reply to Re: Sorting stuff out, posted by Dinah on September 4, 2005, at 15:25:06
If someone gave me the choice of giving up my therapist for a relationship, I would say no. This I'm sure of. I've never had anyone do for me what he has done and I'm sure it wouldn't ever happen in another setting. So I need him in his therapist role.
This idea of total honesty though is hard for me. Setting pride aside and letting needs out, it feels dangerous and presumptuous. And no one can tell me how much is too much.
But I think you are right. I think I could tell if he really started to resent me. And since I don't feel that yet, maybe I don't have to worry so much, yet.
Thanks for helping me understand myself.
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