Posted by B2chica on September 1, 2005, at 10:30:53
In reply to Re: sex talk and T's gender... » B2chica, posted by fairywings on August 31, 2005, at 13:22:31
> I agree that talking about certain things has to do with your relationship with your primary parent. I also agree to that I'd rather have a male T, but I love my kids T and she's female. I just feel like it's a warmer relationship with a man, and also I feel like most of my problems were with my dad, and men in general, so I should try to "work it out" with a male T. Does that make any sense at all, or am I rationalizing?no,, your not rationalizing. you make perfect sense about 'working it out' with a male T for you. that's exactly what my T said to me about a female T. i just feel so much more comfortable with male T. i guess growing up mostly ive always had male friends.
> I guess if you need to learn to tell someone off, then going to a female T might be good. Maybe finding out that you can open up and develop a relationship with a female T is good?
> fwya but i'm really scared to make that jump. i just don't know if i'm ready. i guess i don't worry about getting mad with a male cuz those that i've met i know can 'handle' it. i'm worried that a female will misunderstand me (as i'm used to) and take it personally or even worse become afraid of me. i have so much anger inside, i'm just afraid that if i don't have the right guidance it will just explode and you know what will hit the fan.
thanks for your advice.
b2c.
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