Posted by gardenergirl on August 28, 2005, at 15:44:47
In reply to Re: Attachment and loss...possible trigger » gardenergirl, posted by All Done on August 28, 2005, at 2:19:17
Hi Lala with the beautiful hair,
I think we are talking about the same thing. And it's a powerful attraction to reach out to someone who feels "safe" to attach to for support. But the long history of being let down, ignored, or pushed away can be a stronger force, and can come out and kick you in the butt without you even realizing it at first.sigh
I guess it takes repeated practice and repeated not being let down to overcome that.
gg
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