Posted by Dinah on August 25, 2005, at 23:07:39
In reply to Re: Need and attachment » Dinah, posted by Tamar on August 25, 2005, at 19:22:18
I guess I can't separate the concept of friendship from certain characteristics that our relationship just doesn't have. Having things in common and enjoying spending time together being a big one. :)
But...
I'm thinking to my attachments and realizing that they're never really peer to peer attachments. Some were and are to my real child or my dog babies. The others to my real daddy and my therapist/mommy. Maybe my internal model of attachment has to be in that mode...
Maybe anything else is way too threatening.
Which doesn't mean I don't thoroughly enjoy my friendships, but it's different.
I'm ok with the blood sugars today. Which is really funny because I stopped being really hungry and then started eating. So I ate plenty today. I even thought of giving up the entire diet and just taking the stupid medicine. I too become absolutely unbearable when my blood sugar is low. Plus it's hard to work and I'm way behind.
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