Posted by Dinah on August 21, 2005, at 11:57:02
In reply to Re: Need and attachment » Dinah, posted by Shortelise on August 21, 2005, at 11:43:30
Yes, there is all that. But that isn't enough to feel that intensity of connection to him. It's like a friendship where the two people no longer talk all night on the phone, but meet up for coffee now and again. It's not necessarily bad, but it is different, and not in a good way. And I'm not sure it's worth $220 a week.
I may not need him, but I do need that intense connection. And I need it with him.
I want to get it back, and he won't even help me with that, because he thinks my development (again avoiding growth) is healthy.
Bah.
poster:Dinah
thread:544714
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