Posted by Fallsfall on August 21, 2005, at 19:12:30
In reply to Re: Need and attachment » Fallsfall, posted by Dinah on August 21, 2005, at 17:51:25
I know that frightened blank. So the next question is why is so scary to even think about considering these possibilities? What *does* it mean for a relationship to change? What relationships have you had that did change?
When I first asked those questions, you threw on a couple of layers of onion. Now you need to peel the layers one at a time. Eventually you will get to the inside.
I guess I'm just trying to encourage you to talk about the elephant in the room. Just trying to give you some hope that if you talk about it it will get easier/better - that it will resolve. It can take a long time even if you talk about it. So you don't have to worry about making major changes right away.
If you can figure out why it is so frightening, then maybe you won't have to be so scared.
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