Posted by daisym on July 30, 2005, at 20:54:00
In reply to Re: Wanting a mommy (long) trigger » daisym, posted by alexandra_k on July 30, 2005, at 17:38:19
****Maybe if you married your 'soul mate' you would be having all sorts of stuff going on about your own self-esteem. Whether you are worthy of love. Whether he really does love you. Why the hell he loves you... I think different people can bring up our different issues...****
hmmm...I never thought of that. Of course, I never thought I had trust issues or self-esteem issues either. Because I'm a Pollyanna about people and their motives about almost everything. But not feelings or emotional issues. And self-esteem, heck, I was pretty darn sure of myself. I always knew what I wanted to do with my life (I'm not doing it); I didn't want kids (I have 3) and I wanted to live in a big city (not even close). I equated self-esteem with self confidence. I'm finding this isn't true at all. That is the fake part of me and I'm confident that no one knows she is fake. And they all like her.
complicated isn't it?
Thanks for the support.
Hugs from me,
Daisy
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