Posted by pinkeye on July 20, 2005, at 21:12:52
In reply to Re: I understood the problem with me.. » pinkeye, posted by pinkeye on July 20, 2005, at 21:01:30
And it is actually a quite bad thing to do - because in addition to my suffering, it stops the other person from growing. If I had told my father Stop, he would have ended up beign a much nicer person today. And if I had told my ex T how much all this was hurting me, and how his lack of response and not taking me seriously affected me long back, he would have become a better T long back. Instead I kept silent, and took all of it silently, and kept hurting, and now I am exploding. And they didn't benefit either, and I didn't benefit either.
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