Posted by pinkeye on July 18, 2005, at 14:45:35
In reply to conclusion: i'm a fool, posted by shrinking violet on July 18, 2005, at 13:08:38
I know what you feel.. I have been there..
But nowadays, it doesn't matter that much to me. Everytime I tend to think about my ex T - I just kill the thought myself and it helps.. And I have come to accept he is a stranger now to me.. and he won't know what is up with me, and I wouldn't know what is going on with him. And I have come to think, perhaps it is better this way. And I say to myself, I cannot go and talk to a person and wish that someone would talk to me, when they said themselves they don't want to hear anymore from me.. I mean, if a person says that to you, what good is there in further trying to correspond or think about keeping in touch? IT is better to let it go and move on. And I gave up analyzing - what led to it etc and I gave up trying to figure out my mistakes or his mistakes or trying for a better termination. Really, the turning point for me was that angry email that I sent.. Maybe you should do something like that.. You have to realize that the mistake is hers partly at least. That would be the first step.
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