Posted by Susan47 on July 15, 2005, at 21:01:31
In reply to Re: I Feel Like a Slut, posted by alexandra_k on July 11, 2005, at 23:22:42
I seriously believe that many people get married for the underlying benefit of having regular, caring sex with someone you makes you feel good. No other reasons are as important as that one... I believe that ... and I think that's why many married women have affairs. It doesn't take long to become bored by the same person. Especially when, if you're like I was, and absolutely cannot learn to love them. It feels like sh*t. And sex is a very, very strong human urge, it's literally, at times, Overwhelming. People think that's especially true for men. But that's not true. It's very very strong in us as well. If they knew how strong, how so many times they just had to look at us a certain way, say the right words, and that those words really aren't so difficult to come by, if they knew how easy it was to get some of us at some times, there'd be a hell of a lot more men making the effort. I think men just give up, sometimes.. they give up on themselves, really. I've dated so many, many men who'd given up on their self-confidence, somehow, and others who were complete idiotic fools with their over-confidence .. yuck, I mean yech ... then having sex with them just made me hate myself. After the first time, it just snowballed. It's horrible. I knew a girl who had a different pair of boots under her bed at least three nights a week. She had a very, Very Strong Urge. For the caring, And the excitement. It's hard when you're excited by the idea of different partners. Mmmmm .. but it's so hard to find men I'd actually consider, anymore. Kind of scary. Might end up being an Old Maid.
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