Posted by Jazzed on May 29, 2005, at 18:07:57
In reply to Re: My turn!, posted by happyflower on May 29, 2005, at 12:29:59
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> Okay now, Jazzed, I said I was over the erotic stuff, now you got me thinking about it again and I see him in 2 days. I don't think I can look at him now! lol Plus we have some tough stuff to discuss, but maybe I should bring up my fantasies again and see what he does! One thing I remember he told me that would help if I couldn't get the image out of my head was to do "emotional flooding", where you think about it several hours for several days until you are so sick of it, you don't think about it anymore! lol But he said I don't think you need to that! Plus he also said, well you could always put a movie on for the kids and spend a couple of hours taking care of my fantasy in another room. I said well I don't think I need a COUPLE OF HOURS to do it! Maybe I should of said well can I take care of my fantasy next week with you for 50 min, and if it is really good, maybe I could get a couple of extra minutes for good behavior. lol I need to get my mind off this !!!!AAAAAAUUUUUUGGGGHHHHH! This is all your fault Jazzy! lol
LOL, THAT was not a freudian slip!!! LMAO!
Yes, I think you definitely SHOULD continue to flood, and BTW, I know that NEVER works for me, just keeps it fresh for me! And, 50 min. twice a week oughta do ya! LOL I think it's hysterical that he suggested putting in a movie, and taking a couple of hours! How did you react?! I can stay with a fantasy for that long! I gotta know how you're next session goes! LOL Be sure to let us know!Jazzed
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