Posted by Jazzed on May 29, 2005, at 9:13:23
In reply to My turn!, posted by happyflower on May 27, 2005, at 19:53:29
> Okay, before I knew about feeling erotic attraction happens a lot in therapy, I mentioned to my T that I had this very erotic dream about a really attractive guy who I met a short time ago. But what was bad is that it made me fantasize about him (if you know what I mean).Well, I thought it as disrespectful to my husband and I was struggling with it.
> So I talked to my T about it and told him. When he went to ask what the dreams were about, I said, "Well they were very good", he got soooo red and embarrest! I think he knew they were about him, but I never told him that, but T's are smart right? You should have seen him regroup himself, and he still stubbled over his words. He normally talks very intelligently. After we discussed that fantasies are normal and not disrespectful, etc. Then he moved his chair close to me and looked right at me and said, "happyflower, is there anything else you want to tell me about this?" I very softly said, No! Nothing has been said about it again! lol Thank goodness, I am over it now. But what was funny is I totally caught him off guard, no wonder he calls me challenging! lolAw, damn! I think ya need to revisit this one with him, and see how he reacts! He pulled his chair up close to you? How do you suppose the conversation would have gone if you'd admitted to it? I'd LOVE to know! LOL
Jazzed
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