Posted by pinkeye on May 25, 2005, at 12:40:40
In reply to Is there any other way to interpret this?, posted by Dinah on May 25, 2005, at 10:47:17
Maybe the right way to see that is that in reality, all of us end up protecting ourselves from others all the time. It is just not you and it is just not your T and it is just not me either.
It happens with everyone - consciously or unconsciously.
Your therapist is good at protecting himself IN A GOOD WAY. What you want to find is people who are like that - who will take care of themselves and who will lend you as much as they can without causing you harm or causing them harm.
And I am sure you protect yourself as well - if I write everyday to you a 100 mails, I am sure you will get fed up of me. It is only the limits that people are different.
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