Posted by pinkeye on May 23, 2005, at 15:25:55
In reply to Re: Nightmares about my ex T - transference? » pinkeye, posted by JenStar on May 23, 2005, at 15:14:33
Thanks JenStar.
I am understanding things more and more now..
I have projected stuff on to him from my father a lot. Yesteday I was feeling so guilty and ashamed of myself for liking him.. and I realized that is the same feeling that my current T has been telling me that I have towards my fahter. She says because of my confusion with my father, I have lot of guilt and shame towards liking men, and that is playing a huge role in my relationship with men. My current T (I have a good one), says that even though I didn't like my relationship with my father, a part of me still longs for the deep intimacy with him and that I am ashamed of myself for it. She says I keep projecting that to everyone I meet.
Hmm.. I am working through multiple serious issues as you said. And my mind is all in a complete mess right now. Thanks for the support.
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