Posted by messadivoce on May 22, 2005, at 21:44:47
Obviously, some people's T's are perfect at everything. Like Daisy's......(grin)
But honestly, does anyone ever think that their T must be a perfect "fill-in-the-blank-here?" Of course this probably has everything to do with transference. For example, I am convinced that my ex T is the perfect father. He told me that he has 2 kids, 6 and 3, girl and boy. I can only think that he must be the kind of dad who will not only set up the wading pool in the backyard, but spend some time splashing around in it with the kids. The kind of dad who hugs his kids every day (especially his daughter) and takes her seriously, and listens when she talks, and thinks she's the greatest thing ever.
Hmm, I'm only talking about his daughter now. Does that give you any clue as to how I see him?
Okay, so what kind of perfect thing is your T? Perfect parent, adult child, caretaker, cook, what?
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