Posted by pinkeye on May 20, 2005, at 19:33:05
In reply to Re: Love with therapist » alecar, posted by Susan47 on May 20, 2005, at 19:16:02
Don't try to make your T a villain. You know he is not. It is not serving any good purpose - neither for you nor for him.
He didn't intend to hurt you. And if he has intended that, he wouldn't have gone into this profession in the first place.
He perhaps made a mistake.. many therapists do, and it hurts the client, but don't make out more of it than what it is.
I think if you develop this attitude more, it is going to be incredibly hard for you to heal well. You are always going to be very bitter and angry, and you don't want to have those feelings towards the one person who tried to help you.
My 2 cents.
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