Posted by gardenergirl on May 3, 2005, at 0:06:17
In reply to Re: Rescue Fantasy, posted by Miss Honeychurch on April 28, 2005, at 8:13:11
> I fantasize all the time of being in the hospital and my T coming to see me and holding my hand. And not charging me!!!!
Hi Miss Honey,
I haven't had this fantasy about my T, but I have had it a lot about other important people in my life. I suppose it's because my mother is an nurse, and everything was health and medical related when I was a kid. Still kind of is, actually. Being sick gets you attention, which equals caring in my family.
And when I actually was in the hospital a few times as a kid, these were the days when visiting was very limited. So I probably felt uncared for and abandoned.
I'm surprised, frankly, that I haven't had this fantasy about my T. But then I haven't had it much at all lately. I wonder what that means.
Nice to see you here.