Posted by pinkeye on March 17, 2005, at 21:24:09
In reply to Re: Final session tomorrow, posted by Tamar on March 17, 2005, at 16:35:25
But you know what, I thought about it again and if it is definitely going to be the last session, and you are sure you are not going to be able to see him again, maybe just mild hinting on it and not dwelving deep might help.
If you completely bare your heart and he doesn't reciproacate (as I am 100 % sure he wouldn't), it will definitely hurt. At best he will say it is a common thing and that he appreciates your honesty and he likes your liking. But he would never reciproacate it. Any unrecquited liking and love hurts. So if you are not prepared for that, it might be wise to just say it mildly and not go too much into it. Maybe much later, when the feelings die down, you can send him a short note at that time. If you think you are still deeply involved, then telling him and not being able to contact him again might end up being miserable.
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