Posted by pinkeye on March 16, 2005, at 12:33:43
In reply to Re: Yee-ha, or haw (very country, that), posted by Susan47 on March 15, 2005, at 18:04:58
> Well and there's another thing, you see, about hurting yourself with another person. The person you're using, the person you're using to make you feel something, is bound to be resentful and pissed off.
Do you keep wanting to do it again and again? Sometime, it might just be the time to let go and make peace with things. I am finding myself more and more in that state nowadays - kind of "why bother" attitude. Life is too short for all these games and longings and frustration. If your therapist had liked you, and wanted to keep in touch with you and see you casually, there might be point in trying to be friends. But why use him to hurt yourself? Instead you might want to emerge into a strong person, and one day he might look at you and say, "Wow, Is this the Susan that I knew?" And to win his honest appreciation.
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