Posted by gardenergirl on March 13, 2005, at 12:45:13
In reply to Re: When therapy is harmful (long), posted by Dinah on March 13, 2005, at 12:09:00
Aphrodite,
I'm sorry about your loss. And I'm sorry that it occurred at a time when you are not in a good place to deal with it. I think being angry about that is normal.Just a thought. Do you really need to go? Can you be selfish right now and take care of yourself and not go? You can still mourn and value the person in your heart while taking care of your own heart. Putting myself in your shoes, I am sure that family members would be upset, and I'd have to weigh the cost of that against the potential benefit of protecting myslef. But really, can you take just a minute to look objectively and see if it might be better to stay at home?
That being said, as far as whether it's better to stir things up or not, well, like Dinah said...there's no one right answer. If only there were a simple test, like a blood test, that told us.
Sending you strong, containing energy.
((((Aphrodite))))
gg
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