Posted by caraher on February 28, 2005, at 16:37:29
In reply to And on a different note... Sex (graphic), posted by Dinah on February 25, 2005, at 16:08:01
> My therapist was really open with other ways of achieving that goal without actual intercourse. And suggested that I do my best to ensure that proceedings ended prior to intercourse. He said actual orgasm is soothing in itself to men. It was sort of amusing. Some of what he says is so very blunt, and I wonder if all guys feel that way or if he's more... ummmm... *goal oriented* than most.
I didn't see a lot of guy input on this and I think what your therapist says is generally true. The "happy ending" is generally a pretty darn big chunk of what I would hope for, at least, and I think most guys would feel the same.
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