Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 21, 2005, at 17:55:53
In reply to Re: Relationships » Fallen4MyT, posted by alexandra_k on January 21, 2005, at 17:27:09
OK ALL I will say on the law and all is I would never expect a law to be altered just for me. I do not know if you overlooked it...,can't blame you for that what started out as a good thread on what pushed buttons got obviously and with regret...pointed over to my thread on social...which then singled me out and makes me feel put down. People have written me in private on this thread taking a bad turn towards ME so it is not me....ok but what you may have missed is I DID SAY WE ARE GETTING MARRIED IN 2 YEARS...I am not screaming just emphasizing...The doctor's at his clinic who are also memebers of the APA know what is going down and what we are and arent and havent been doing in the mean time. HAHAH Thank you for your respect <g> I feel like a punching bag lately and feel like I do not act towards others like that....Thank you very much..I am going out for suppies lol we are due for 10 inches of snow...gak
> > I don't want to debate the issue of ANY one law it is not what I come to Babble for. I will say I do belive *many laws* need to change and NO not JUST FOR ME <was that sarcasm?> .
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> Nope - no sarcasm intended. I just wondered whether you really did want to see this rule go. I also wondered what you thought it should be replaced with. I am genuinely interested in that. If you don't really want to talk about it then that is ok. I guess that I think it is a good rule but would be interested to hear your point of view.
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> I agree with you that there are loads of people here whose actions (at times) I wouldn't want to condone. Myself included there :-)
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> I haven't really been up on the threads. I guess I was wondering whether my kinds of responses were 'unsupportive'. Not sure what other peoples responses have been.
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> I can see that this is an issue that brings up a lot of stuff for people.
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> I am not too upset or anything about my relationship ending. It was a lot different in many respects from yours - but I do see points of similarity too.
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> I think that in my own case if we had waited two years before we got together. Well, if we had waited I think I would have bailed in that time. That would have saved me a lot of hurt (and therapy) later. That would have been an alternative to having to learn the hard way.
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> Hey if you did wait and then still wanted to be together then I really would be fully supportive :-)
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> But it feels great to feel loved.
> I am happy for you that you have that.
> I respect ya :-)
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