Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 4, 2005, at 18:30:33
In reply to Re: Progess in your life..see any from last year?, posted by Joslynn on January 4, 2005, at 10:31:12
Joslynn this sounds a little like what I have found for myself. I am more assertive though it isnt easy I am doing a lot better saying no...(not perfect) to family members too. My T well lol that is another story but I have found that IF I lost him that I will be fine the world will not stop. That is freeing. It feels good to look back and see what you have done and can do. I like taking stock. I have also found I am a little stronger than I was in general. I am so glad to hear of your progress :)
> I see progress in me. I ended an over-dependence on my pdoc, who was also a secondary therapist, and now I see him a lot less often. This was very hard but circumstances occurred that forced me to see the futility of the dependency, then I just had to extricate myself. Of course there was an almost unbearable feeling of abandonment before that.
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> I also can stand up to my father a little bit better during family gatherings and such. This is an ongoing challenge.
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