Posted by annierose on December 29, 2004, at 22:35:49
In reply to Re: Crushed? How are you doing? » Annierose, posted by crushedout on December 29, 2004, at 16:23:36
Yes, yes and yes.
Yes, I went back to my first T after 15 years.
I was so curious to see how we both turned out, so to speak. I was just out of college when I started seeing her, and she was working on her PhD at the time. We really both look the same, just older. She still holds firm boundaries, but is more relaxed and talkative as a T. She had sent me a Christmas card last year, totally out of the blue! Freaked me out. I had sent her holiday cards time to time (especially if I had a photo of my kids on them), but she NEVER EVER responded, even after I walked out mid-session. So the card was "what the heckers!". So I called her and made an appointment last January. I thought I would just wrap things up with her, and then, next thing I know, I'm in this family battle
(my parents) and a legal battle. So I was so glad to have her support throughout the year.Yes, my first husband left me after only a 15 month marriage. I refer to it as my "starter marriage". No kids with him, thankfully. And yes, I remarried 3 years later to my current husband, we have 2 kids (11 and 6).
See, one never knows the curve balls life is going to throw your way. I am so glad I am back in treatment with my T1. But I am extremely thankful, I waited. We grew.
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