Posted by alexandra_k on December 27, 2004, at 15:57:24
In reply to Re: Forever Therapy » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on December 26, 2004, at 21:31:12
>he is relatively (though not perfectly) nonjudgemental about helping me brainstorm to get out of whatever mess I get myself into.
Don't you think that you could find this in the real world?
>He couldn't be what he is to me if he cared too much.
Do you really think that? Do you think that everyone who is close to you will 'hate you for your flaws?' - I think you deserve better.
I reckon that all those things... all those things you mention could be found in the real world without your having to pay for them. All those things and more - because it could be mutual. The only thing you would lose out on is the inequal power balance and the one sided nature of it all. And you are not a selfish person so I don't believe you would miss that.Maybe I am just hopelessly optimistic...
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