Posted by Joslynn on December 10, 2004, at 17:01:26
In reply to Is this even possible? **Triggers**, posted by memoryleaves on December 10, 2004, at 15:15:33
(((Memory)))
I think what your saying makes sense, you were never allowed to mourn and now your brain is bringing it up to the surface because it knows you have to mourn.
I am not sure what advice to give. I know some hospitals have grieving programs.
My Mom lost her mother when she was only 3 and it still affects her to this day. She was allowed to mourn and was told the truth and it still is an ache in her heart.
I am so sorry people lied and you had to wait by that window! How terrible for a little child.
This sounds like a big breakthrough & may turn out to be a cleansing thing, as much as it hurts now. We all need "a time to mourn" --people can't just try to cancel it out, you have the right to feel it.
poster:Joslynn
thread:427333
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20041210/msgs/427373.html