Posted by JenStar on July 16, 2004, at 17:36:33
In reply to Re: Transference pain never ends » JenStar, posted by crushedout on July 16, 2004, at 15:48:12
hi there Crushed,
OK...sometimes I have a thick skull. :) I believe you when you say your feelings are requited. Just feel sad for you that they won't get consummated. I do understand better, I think, after re-reading your posts.I really don't want to upset you here... just trying to offer my (sometimes blunt) advice. I'll try to tone it down in the future. I'm new to the board but like all you guys already - everyone is so interesting and varied and helpful to each other.
take care.
hope things are going well with you!
JenStar
> Thanks, Jenstar. I keep trying to tell you that it's not necessarily "unrequited," though! It's just very unlikely to get consummated. I think it's at least partially requited. That's all. Why I'm so hung up on you understanding this point, I'm not really sure. (I guess it feels less bad to know that my feelings are at least partially returned even if we can never act on them.) But let's not get into that.
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