Posted by Racer on July 15, 2004, at 15:52:55
In reply to Re: Wanting to quit again, posted by JenStar on July 15, 2004, at 11:36:33
I'm not sure if you've read any of the older posts about this subject from Tabitha, but I think the whole subject is more complex than just "transference" or "dependency." There are a lot of nuances that may be more clear to those who have read the whole story, rather than this one post.
I'm not trying to antagonize you, only to do what I can to protect Tabitha -- because this has been such a painful and distressing situation for her, I'm afraid that she might feel distressed or put down by your post. I do realize that your advice is generally good, and I believe that your intentions are the best in offering that advice. I'm only trying to suggest that you may have an incomplete understanding of the issues involved in this particular situation.
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