Posted by Fallen4MyT on April 30, 2004, at 22:10:36
In reply to Re: I talked about my crush on the group member » Fallen4MyT, posted by tabitha on April 28, 2004, at 0:46:41
Right :-) Feelings are just that feelings not bad or good and its what we do with them that counts. Like right now I wanna slap my husband and have good reason BUT WON'T so you did the right and brave...lol and healthy..way to go :)
> Thanks. I'm starting to feel better. It's like I've revealed my shameful feelings and it was OK, so I can stop telling myself I'm bad for having these feelings. That's a big relief.. even though I wanted the guy to tell me he liked me, but he didn't. I'm still OK for having these feelings, no matter what he says or feels, right?
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> Either this is some new healthy thinking, or a protective rationalization. Either way I'll take it :-)
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