Posted by Fallen4MyT on April 16, 2004, at 10:24:25
In reply to Re: Is the attraction mutual?, posted by joslynn on April 16, 2004, at 9:23:46
For me if I became Mrs T I would have done so after the two year period they have thus he would still have his job. As to looking over my back for other women that I believe holds in any and ALL relationships...will they cheat, will they go with someone more attracrtive more this or that. I guess I am too solid in my self esteem to worry on that. But again I know the man I am talking about and many T's who decide tio cross well your are right SOME can and will use people and mis-use them. My situation and I say this not because I am naive but because not every person fits every mold. I know the person I am speaking of so I will and do feel safe with this :)
> Personally, I don't think I would want to be a Mrs. T in those situations. I would always wonder, if he could not honor the ethics of his own profession (by not coming on to a patient), then how will he honor the marriage vows? When he is with an attractive client, is he going to make overtures to her like he did with me when I was a client? I would always wonder about that. Also, if it came out how/when the relationship w/ me started, he could lose his career.
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