Posted by fallsfall on April 11, 2004, at 12:56:25
In reply to How could T/transference, posted by terrics on April 11, 2004, at 11:53:09
Perhaps she feels that *she* doesn't have transference (well, it would be countertransference in her case). But if she *does* feel that her feelings for you are *real*, I question whether it is Ethical of her to tell you so.
If you feel like your feelings are likely to be transference, and you have talked to her about your feelings and she isn't helping you work through them, then I question her skill and motives.
I'm sorry, terrics, I'm just having a really hard time figuring out why this could be good for you. I hope that when you start with your DBT individual therapist that you can talk some of this through with her/him.
If the skills training group doesn't start immediately, maybe you can see your new DBT therapist before the group starts.
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