Posted by All Done on March 12, 2004, at 13:55:16
In reply to Do you and your t. say l love you ever?, posted by KindGirl on March 11, 2004, at 18:06:26
When I first learned about transference and all the feelings that can be evoked in a therapeutic relationship, I was discussing it with my T. At one point, I said, "but it's not like I *love* you or anything, yet." At the time, the yet was a slip. Good thing I said it, though, I suppose :).
To answer your question, no. Neither my T or I say I love you to each other. I think I'm learning (is that the right word?) to love him, but sadly, I don't know that he loves me or ever will. Perhaps, he cares about me. Though I'm still not sure about that one, either.
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