Posted by Karen_kay on February 14, 2004, at 14:32:04
In reply to My rant and update, posted by Elle2021 on February 14, 2004, at 2:09:34
((((Elle))))
Happy Valentine's Day.
I wish you weren't still sick, so I could come get you and we could spend a miserable evening together at some overpriced restaraunt with a snooty waiter and poor service, eating overpriced food and drinking watered-down cocktails.....
How would that sound? Appealing??? It's the thought that counts, I suppose..
Do you think your mom will change her mind? Maybe after just a few weeks, or even a few months, she'll change her mind. You may have to do some major butt-kissing, but it may just happen. I'm sure you know how to play her, try you best to do it. I know it sucks, but if you want to get what you want and need, sometimes you have to play people to get it. That's what I do. Maybe it's not "nice" but it seems to be effective in my case. Just a suggestion.
Also, if you don't want to do that, maybe you can get therapy through your university? Is that an option? I go to a small school and that's where I started. And I requested a male therapist and a "real" therapist, not a student. You can do that, you know... Maybe something to look into if your mom won't change her mind.
I'm SO sorry your mom is acting like this. Is it just because you got into a fight? Maybe once the smoke clears, she'll change her mind...
I'm here for you babe. I've tried to stay out of stuff for a while, due to my own crap. But, I'm managing to "kepp things together" HA!
Get some sleep. Hum lots of tunes. Watch TV when you can't sleep, I like Discovery channel personally. And Law and Order!!! Drink juice, baby. And brush your hair. It helps when you're sick. (And yes, even I do it!) I miss you babe. Take good care of my baby, OK? And eat soup, it helps with the flu. 7-Up and saltines. Go to the Dr. if you aren't feeling better by Monday. I mean business!!! Don't want you to be like me and develope something else more serious because you push yourself too much! Take care hun, I mean it, OK!!!
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