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Re: Asking your T if he ever fantasizes about you? tinydancer

Posted by Karen_kay on January 8, 2004, at 12:48:23

In reply to Asking your T if he ever fantasizes about you?, posted by tinydancer on January 8, 2004, at 9:36:49

Ok, once I admitted to my therapist that I thought about him while I masturbated but that I felt guilty about it (because of my own sexual hang-ups). His reply was great but it started on a conversation about fantasies. During this conversation, I asked him a question (and I was hinting at your question but trying not to make it obvious), though he caught it and asked, "Do you mean do I think about you?" Being the quick recoverer I am I gasped and said, "Ummm, no of course not me, but do you think of other people in general?" Darn it. Wish I would have asked, but two heavy questions in one day is good enough for me. I'd say go for it. What's the worst he could possibly say, No? I mean, you could always say, "Good, because I don't think about you either!" And end that discussion right there!

But, the way I approached my topic is that I just blurted it out on accident of sorts. I was feeling guilty about thinking about him, though he is rather yummy. And it ended rather well, with him giving me permission to think about him, as well as anyone one else I choose. Though he did say that it was consensual (???huh??? kind of odd wording but I know he wants me JUST KIDDING!!!))). The conversation was a nice one to have, though the next day I felt like kicking myself. I think though, chances are he won't answer you, but I want you to ask because I want to know what he says!!!!


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