Posted by Dinah on January 5, 2004, at 23:23:27
In reply to Are extra sessions self-indulgent?, posted by DaisyM on January 5, 2004, at 22:46:30
Occasionally I feel guilty. Mostly about bothering him. But generally I'm glad I did it, and I know he is too. Partly because I tend to "forget" bad feelings and if I don't go in when I'm feeling bad, the opportunity has passed to talk about it.
I keep remembering that he wouldn't offer to see me if it wasn't ok with him, and it's not my job to take care of him. But it is my job to take care of me so that I can be the best I can be for my family.
I still feel a bit guilty about the money though.
Don't beat yourself up over it, and see it as a positive step in learning to take care of yourself. I can't see you becoming overly self indulgent anytime soon. :)
poster:Dinah
thread:296947
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