Posted by DaisyM on December 23, 2003, at 11:15:37
In reply to Re: Intelligence, posted by TF on December 23, 2003, at 8:44:05
The best advice I have for dealing with Know-it-alls is either complete silence (best!) OR simply say: "I'm not clear what you mean. Can you say that again?" Or simply respond with one word questions: "And?" "So?" "Point?"
Remember, it isn't about you. It is about their need to feel superior. I agree with Karen, your post indicates a level of intelligence and thoughtfulness. Some buttons are just more easily pushed than others. I too have a "thing" about being made to feel stupid. It doesn't happen very often but it really sets me off.
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