Posted by HannahW on October 3, 2003, at 14:05:59
In reply to Flowers In Office/More/Opinions Needed, posted by Rigby on October 3, 2003, at 10:00:08
What does it mean to "get lost" with you? That she forgot her role as therapist and thought of herself as something else? I'm not catching the meaning of the phrase. And how long ago was her declaration? Have there been other boundary crossings since then?
The flowers do seem very odd. If she wanted them right smack in the middle so she could be reminded of them, that's inappropriate because she's not fully paying attention to you. If she wanted them there in the middle either so you would ask her about them, or so you would know that somebody thought she was special enough to send her flowers, that's also inappropriate. Weird. You should ask her about it. It's very "grammar school" to draw attention to something and then say you can't talk about it. Oh, Please! Even if the flowers were for something intimate, like thanks from her husband for a sexual favor, she could have just told you they were for a thank you. Even if you pressed and said, "What for?" She could still have just said, "I made him feel special" or something. There's no reason to be coy, I don't think.
I wouldn't read too much into the sweater just yet, unless she wore it twice in one week. If it shows up again, I'd get suspicious. It's possible that her more revealing clothing is just a new look for her, if she's feeling suddenly more confident about her body, or if she just got bored with a more modest look.
Do you have other reasons to think she might be trying to entice you?
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