Posted by IsoM on June 30, 2002, at 15:12:35
In reply to seeing ... hearing ... being ... » IsoM, posted by oona on June 30, 2002, at 14:30:14
It's horrible to say but many times my sweet Mom drives me nuts - she's so addled at times that she repeats the same questions over & over. She forgets so many things said or done & she doesn't have Alzheimer's or anything else. She's just like that. But I do love her & try to be very patient with her. She's the reason for who I am in many ways.
You wrote "We do not hear the kind words, the words of support and love. Why would someone love us? They just think they do or they got stuck with us." My Mom is the reason I hear the kind words of love & support. She gave me so much growing up. She always accepted me & told me I was wonderful & talented. Sweet, dear Mom. I gave that gift to my sons too.
If there's anything I can give to others, it's to try to accept them as much as I can in my limited way. And to let others know what's wonderful about them. Not to try to harp on the negative qualities but to highlight the positive. The more we do that, the more they shine. One small way to bring happiness & hope for others.
I love your post. I hope for the day when things will always be better. For me, I know I'll always have to take meds, but I don't mind. Everyday, I have to eat & drink so I've excepted my limitations. Keep hoping, Oona.
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