Posted by emilyp on December 25, 2009, at 11:23:28
In reply to Re: To Phillipa and all » johnj1, posted by Phillipa on December 24, 2009, at 13:31:14
While I have not been involved in this post much at all, as I read it, I had the same exact feeling that johnj1 did. Forgiveness is important. But considering all the comments and situations that were discussed, it does not appear to be a one time incident. So while an apology is the first step, understanding why one acts this way is more important.
I say this not to be mean. But I have had behaviors that are not constructive and at times hurtful. People don't appreciate them and ultimately you lose them. If you don't change, then you will wind up losing many people in your life.
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