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Re: one last thing..dr bob » newwife

Posted by alexandra_k on October 10, 2004, at 19:48:54

In reply to one last thing..dr bob, posted by newwife on October 9, 2004, at 19:54:56

> you know i should not even have to be careful how to word my stuff, i should be able to write without being scared of getting in trouble.

Though the only reason one 'gets into trouble' is because one says something that could lead to others feeling accused or put down. Is it too much to ask that people not post anything that could cause others to feel offended or put down? Some people are more sensitive to that than others, of course, but isn't it a nice idea at least, that one should refrain from hurting others to the best of ones ability?

>also, did you ever stop to think that what you consider un civil some might not. so how is it my fault if i type something you consider un civil if i dont even know it is.

If you didn't understand what was considered to be uncivil about those two points, then it may have been useful to ask.

>who died and made you the master and commander of a support group website.

Ouch. Dr. Bob kindly donates his time and moderates this site.

>i feel like you are a mean teacher who takes posts out of context and i dont think anything on my post was un civil and if you want to band me go ahead, freedom of speech dr bob? remember that??? go ahead and band me, i bet atleast 5 other people agree with my post and dont think its uncivil. they are just scared to agree in fear of getting booted. i dont care, i dont agree with you and i bet you are not even a dr. if you were then you would be more understanding about how people think differently and if you want a social opinion giving website then quit punishing people that try to say how they feel. go ahead and kick me off, i have made friends and we can communicate off this website. i thought the admin section was to voice concerns. guess not. i refuse to let you put words in my mouth, i never said force him to leave. dont make me look bad. i was really nice by not dropping names. anyone can make something un civil if they try. mine was not. i am a nice 23 year old newlywed that has never tried to offend anyone and you have managed to hurt my feelings. happy? how is that for uncivil?

It seems to me that you do not understand why those aspects of your post were considered uncivil. Why don't you try to understand that (by asking) before resorting to personal attacks?

 

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