Posted by ~Alii~ on September 17, 2002, at 17:02:58
In reply to Re: please be civil » wendy b. » Alii, posted by Dr. Bob on September 17, 2002, at 13:37:13
...entire post. Telling anyone to just get over it without having any understanding of the context in which someone has come to be how they now are. Read Ellavon, read her own site troublewaits, dig deeper to understand that, imo, she is trying to express the truth as she sees it which is uncomfortable for some of the more sensitive people of the board.
Not everyone can always colour within the lines and especially those of us with mental illness and trauma fight different battles.
By allowing that one sentence to go is showing total ignorance of posting syles, personalities and any actual knowledge of any of us as your test subjects.
>>>>> (In fact, I don't see why Bob jumps all over some people, but allows this post to stay, but we'll leave that to another post. ) ...
To say to Robin: "Get over it," is as unsupportive as you can get. <<<<<-- wendy b.
>>>>> I thought that overall, his post was caring and empathic, so I let that one sentence go. But it certainly was a judgment call. And of course my judgment is idiosyncratic...<<<<<--Bob