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Re: disability - Proudfoot - SLS » Dinah

Posted by morgan miller on September 7, 2010, at 14:31:31

In reply to Re: disability - Proudfoot - SLS » morgan miller, posted by Dinah on September 7, 2010, at 13:48:38

Dinah, if we always settle on the "good enough mother" or "good enough" parents, will we ever strive to do what we need to do to be better parents? Don't you think we need to have a certain awareness of what it takes to be a really good parent so that we do not accept just being average or "good enough"?

>Pressure on parents is huge. How can parents be ideal unless they themselves are perfectly well adjusted?

This is exactly why we need more awareness and more services available to people so that they can have a better chance of taking it upon themselves to do what they need to do to nurture themselves closer to the better adjusted individual they would have been if their parents were better adjusted people.

>Especially since, if genetics does play a large role, parents might be struggling with the same genetic tendencies.

Like I said before, the genetics that predisposed the parents to struggle with their own mental illness, are less likely to be a disruptive factor in their lives and their ability to parent, if they are nurtured properly, be it by their parents, or, eventually by themselves through intensive therapy.

Morgan


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