Posted by Geegee on November 9, 2008, at 21:31:38
In reply to Game Time, rj v.s Racer....let the games begin!, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on November 8, 2008, at 22:56:30
> i got over it, but developed a some personality aspect's because NO ONE understood what happened. > That's the "irony" of the screenname, it had 2 meanings, i wanted to be loved, i cant be loved, i was abused during the times that everyone ignored my posts.
Hi Rj,
I feel sad that you post your heart out and you feel that no one understands or supports you. Worse, you feel that you are criticized. I'm sad because that must feel truly awful. I'm sensitive to feeling rejected, and it can be really paralyzing for me. I know it feels terrible.I'm also sad because I know that there are several people here who have posted to you trying to understand and be supportive. It's frustrating and confusing when the support we offer does not feel helpful for the poster. We offer what we can and what we think will help, but that doesn't mean that we are on target for what you need. So I ask, what are you looking for from us that would feel supportive? What would lead to you feeling understood by us? My wish for you is that you do find that empathy, support, and community here--that you feel that others understand and accept you while also supporting you in your efforts to find relief.
Can you give some examples of what you would find helpful? Maybe even post a reply to yourself that is the type you are looking for? I know that would help me going forward. I do well by having examples of what works and what doesn't work.
Warmly,
gg
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