Posted by steel on June 25, 2007, at 16:46:56
In reply to About replies » girlnterrupted78, posted by gardenergirl on June 25, 2007, at 10:36:15
Phillipa has contacted me on a personal level a few times.Perhaps this is the case as well.
There are a few problems here,first i think phillipa is more sensative then most imagine.As in my case when i presented this issue it brought upon a storm down on me from many,when in with all truthfullness i can say i meant it as a concern.
I have close friends here,and id expect and HOPE theyd tell me if i were posting too much and possably doing myself more harm than good.
IT NEVER was a insult on phillipas character,only a low life form would come here to make someone feel bad,and i dont believe this here also is that case as well.
I gave my opinion on the situation often,as well as never ignore a email from her as well,but that is simply what i saw.
My concern is this problem seems to come up a bit,and its almost instamatic that certain people respond almost in a defense mode.
Perhaps if the issue continues to come up,you might want to take in the possability that there is a problem,i mean how many times does a birdie have to plopper on your car before u move it,lol.
So again maybe counting up all the times its been an issue,perhaps the powers that be might be may i suggest wrong? on the response?
I dont know,i just dont think its a matter of comming to her defense,rather phillipa needs to understand no one is trying to hurt her,rather looking out for a persons best interest.
I know its easy to get caught up on this group,and i sometimes do and see it and pull back,its honestly in of course my own eyes not a place you want to become tight knitted in,make friends from it to use for support offline,thats a great option,as well as phillipa,do you know how much your responses are probuably needed in social,im betting your moral and social support is definatly a asset to that board as well.
Either way its a shame when anyone here is feeling as if its not a place to come,it totaly defeats the purpose,right or wrong we need to remeber people look for understanding and since thats what is here,we should in no way ever make someone feel this is not a place for them to get that,EVER.
Just my two cents.
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